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Thinking of Posting… But Phir Woi "Mom Kya Bolegi" 😭

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The internal war every Indian content creator knows too well. You have the idea. You have the words. You've written the whole thing in your head at 2am. And then it hits you. Phir woi mom kya bolegi. Suddenly, you're not a writer anymore. You're a defendant preparing for trial. The judge? Your mother. The jury? Every auntie she's ever spoken to on the phone for 45 minutes. You start editing — not for grammar, not for flow — but for survival. "Okay if I remove this line… and change this word… and maybe don't mention that this happened to me specifically…" And by the time you're done, the post has no soul left. It's just a husk of what you actually wanted to say. Here's what nobody tells you: the posts that scare you the most to publish? Those are always the ones that connect the hardest. The ones that make strangers comment,  "bhai/didi, are you living in my house?" Your mom might not get it. The aunty brigade definitely wo...

Why am I "too much" for people who can't handle depth?

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"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."  - Ralph Waldo Emerson Two Versions of Me. Neither Fully Understood. I don't know what to call myself. An empath? Maybe. Someone who understands people a little too well? Possibly. Someone who trusts too easily, shows up too quickly, and quietly tries to hold the people they love in place - control them, even, under the disguise of caring? Also possibly. I haven't figured that part out yet. Have you ever tried to put yourself in a category and realised you don't fully fit any of them? Easy to Talk To. Hard to Love. "We accept the love we think we deserve."  - Stephen Chbosky I have always been the person people come to. The one who listens, who remembers, who makes space. Conversations find me easily. People open up to me like I am a door that was already unlocked. But somewhere between being easy to talk to and being easy to love - I ...

The Difference Between Solitude and Loneliness (And the Friends Who Know Which One You're In)

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"Language has created the word 'loneliness' to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word 'solitude' to express the glory of being alone." — Paul Tillich Two Words. One Massive Difference. The art of being alone is something we all eventually have to learn. But there is a massive, incredibly important difference between being alone and being lonely — a line that so many of us blur without even realizing it. Solitude is a choice. It is quiet, restorative, and intentional. It is the feeling of sitting with yourself and actually enjoying the company. Loneliness is something else entirely. It is the hollow ache of feeling unseen, even in a room full of people. It is the silence that feels like punishment rather than peace. I know this difference not because I read about it — but because I have lived on both sides of it. When Solitude Becomes Something Darker There were stretches of my life when what I called "needing space" was really j...